INDUETIMENew Contributor
MY BOYFRIEND IS A ALCOHOLIC
7 years gone. What started well descended into daily alcohol-fueled rages, constant arguments, surveillance, and verbal abuse. He refuses help, gaslights me, and plays the victim,never taking responsibility. He constantly accuses me of cheating, using recorders in our home and car to monitor my every move, and has even hacked my social media to impersonate me.He will spend his last couple of dollars to get alcohol even used my credit card to get it without my knowledge. He drinks a bottle by himself every day. I'm drained and at my breaking point. The mental abuse is the worst he uses private information that i trusted him with against me to attach and make fun of struggles i have shared with him. Anyone else experienced this level of control and invasion of privacy from a alcoholic partner? How did you find the strength to leave? And should i continue to try help even if he's not receptive? i don't want to turn my back on anyone in need. This is my first time dealing with any a alcoholic truth is i dont no how to help.
