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lovingjesusSenior Contributor
Suffering from Depression and PTSD, I have almost zero motivation to put on a happy face and go on regular outings or social activities.
My wife needs that, and she makes it known. God bless her though, she has been by my side for 31 years, but she is dying from the inside she says, and I have no idea what to do.
just needed to vent, but have no clue on how to manage her needs when I can’t even manage myself.🥲🤷♂️
In response to: Managing expectations
RiverSealModerator
Hey @lovingjesus, thank you for sharing your experiences with the community!
Sounds like a tough time with your wife and you are demonstrating your resilience and strength by reaching out to your peers.
The community is here to support you and share their insights so I encourage you to continue to post here on the Forums.
Take care
RiverSeal
In response to: Re: Managing expectations
lovingjesusSenior Contributor
Thank you so much 🙏
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