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DeluvsueCasual Contributor
First try at this sort of thing. I've been completely isolated, my dad tries but tells me just move on, with everything. Get over it. I have extreme rejection sensitivity and my emotions are not regulated. Because I've masked all my life, I don't think he realises how hard life is for me. Where can I get support for him, so he can understand, I know he wants to.
In response to: Late diagnosis, ADHD /autism
tymeModerator
Hey there @Deluvsue ,
Welcome to the forums. It sounds incredibly hard for people around you not to understand you needs. I can see how it can be so tough.
I'm glad to hear your dad wants to understand. Have you ever taken him to appointments with you and perhaps it's a good opportunity for your treating team to explain it to him?
What kind of supports do you have in place?
We are here for you.
In response to: Late diagnosis, ADHD /autism
GlistenSenior Contributor
@Deluvsue 👋🏼 Welcome to the Forum
Thank you for sharing your truth and reaching out.
How do you feel about your diagnosis?
I was 40 when I was diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia.
G
In response to: Re: Late diagnosis, ADHD /autism
DeluvsueCasual Contributor
No support, 48 and no friends.
He lives 3 hours aways and each time we talk on phone it usually ends with me hanging up in frustration.
I'd love to be able to give him a resource, like AL ANON.
In response to: Re: Late diagnosis, ADHD /autism
DeluvsueCasual Contributor
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