Hello @birdbrain
@amber22
Yes I was married to someone who took years to admit to me he has delusions and hallucinations. We were both 42 years old. Before we both decided to begin a relationship, I knew of his diagnosis. His life had been twisty and tough as someone with chronic paranoid schizophrenia.
I think the first thing is to put a safety plan down with no drama - just until you both see the correct medical people. I used to have a piece of paper on the wall for my ex to read if he felt out of control.
It wrote ;
Keep Peppy Patty safe.
1. Look in the mirror
2. Look at your hair
3. Get a comb
4 comb your hair
5 have a good hair day !
...............,..
Perhaps you could put something in place like ensuring the front door keys are accessible if a situation becomes hairy.
You are going to be caring for someone who is unsure of herself. Whether these are proper hallucinations and delusions or not, this poor person could be scared. By making sure you are safe with your partner, there could foster good feelings of security and relief that could feel between you both.
I'm sorry you are both dealing with something which is scary and tough. Perhaps your partner just needs to rest this weekend before you both see the GP.? Maybe you need to as well ?
Being gentle is a good way to handle the weekend ??
My husband and I had 10 years of a wonderful marriage. I joined Sane to get support be cause our relationship got scary when we turned 52 years old.
We are still best friends.
