Schizoaffective partner advice plz 😭

Hey @Empathyguy ,

It's hard to tell @Empathyguy , but I hear how hard it must be for you.

I wonder if those 7 weeks were part of the mania where she maybe have acted impulsively in initiating intimacy, kissing etc ? It's hard to say.

Depending on the cycling of episodes, each episode can last for weeks.

Another way of seeing it is that she was okay during the 7 weeks, and is now going into a depressive episode?

As I said, it's hard to say after 7 weeks.

The main thing is that you look after yourself at this time. Do you have someone you can speak to?

The intimacy was my sensitive description of making love.

Am utilising helplines to talk it out. I would like to think the 7 weeks were her in 'normal' state of mind. Also going to see Doc about referring me for mental health support because ive struggled with sleeping etc.

There is certainly a lot to process @Empathyguy . It is understandable you are feeling this way. It's certainly a good idea to speak to you doctor about what's been happening for you.

Alongside the support from your doctor, I wonder if you would be interested in SANE's Guided Service? You can read more about it here and see if you reside in an eligible PHN (postcode). https://www.sane.org/referral

We hope you find the support you need at this time.

Thank you. Am hopeful other ppl with experiences supporting loved ones with this illness can share their opinions and experiences to provide some insight for me.