darrenhayesSenior Contributor
Hi can you get a design template
It makes it very hard to help
1. Feelings eg
2.What I've tried so far CBT psychology or self empowerment
3.helped or not y or n
4. Asking for angles
And fi
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darrenhayesSenior Contributor
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Hi there @darrenhayes,
We can understand how very large paragraphs might be too overwhelming to read, so it might be more helpful to write paragraphs or dot points explaining the issue someone is facing, and that way people can reply better.
Unfortunately we are not able to do a template for this on the forum, you can use the search bar if you are wanting to look for something more specific to your interests.
Just a reminder that the SANE forums are a place for conversation and discussion to provide support, and not for organisation of daily tasks.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Hi @darrenhayes
I came across the KISS formula 40 years ago .. but then it was finished with "stupid" .. so I associate it with yet another cruel put down that I endured and my brother endured many times.
I know you are trying to help.
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Change123Senior Contributor
Hi @darrenhayes
I can understand what you are saying and yes it would help others, I guess I know with myself sometimes its just about venting and getting rid of those feelings so they dont consume you and often I know if I do a big long post its because I'm not in a " good" state of mind due to whatever and yes you can ramble on but its very cathartic just to get it out sometimes. Maybe its a man/ woman thing Im just speaking for myself so dont rush everyone to tell me I'm wrong but I find women like to talk more in detail and more casually - like include other things and it can go off into another tanget but men try to be very logical and just want to talk directly about a few things which I guess is what you are sort of asking.
No one is wrong its just the way it is but I do understand what you are getting at.![]()
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