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GlistenSenior Contributor
Trigger Warning:
….. I think I’m in shock. Sitting here like a stunned mullet.
His ABN “active” 26 February 2022 Post Code _122
2014 his ABN Post Code _233
Our place where I created the excel formula for his invoicing. Paid for his business cards.
He has been having an affair since February 2022.
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tymeModerator
I hear how much you are hurting @Glisten . I read the shock and confusion you are experiencing. Piecing it together sounds very very difficult indeed.
It is not easy to speak about such things, yet you have shown great bravery and courage in coming forward. Please know you are not alone.
Practice self-care. YOU need to put yourself first at this time.
hugs.
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GlistenSenior Contributor
@tyme Thank you fixing the post for me.
I didn’t think there was anything more to discover.
I didn’t have a voice until April 2022. Literally I had Vocal fold paralysis for 12 months prior.
All that time
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Underneath the silence is a lot of betrayal. @Glisten We are left to imagine.... but get that it is huge. I relate strongly, as I have been and been called the stunned bunny in the headlights etc. Typing was easier than speaking, so the forum really helped me a lot.
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