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How do I help a friend whose adult child is abusing her emotionally and financially? I have managed to extricate myself from a manipulative and unsafe daughter, but my friend is truly trapped in her relationship and needs help and support. Both daughters have been assessed as schistophrenic by medical professionals.
In response to: Emotional and financial abuse of parent/carer
hanamiSenior Contributor
Re: Emotional and financial abuse of parent/carer
Hi @Lolo11
Sounds like you're a really caring friend. I'm glad your situation has improved but can understand your concern for your friend. While your friend has to ultimately work things out for themselves you could offer resources to them that might be helpful. Such as educational resources or support services that might be of use to them. What do you think?
Warmest wishes
Hanami
In response to: Emotional and financial abuse of parent/carer
tymeModerator
Re: Emotional and financial abuse of parent/carer
Hey @Lolo11 ,
You have some very valid concerns there. Have you heard of Elder Abuse?
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