No, @Loz_3647, there are other ways to go, better ways. Firstly, do you have medication? I have previously posted that I am very anti-medication, but there are times when I need to quell my overwhelming despair and I resort to medication so that I can get my situation back in perspective. If you're trying to do this without resort to medication then you'll never have peace enough to tackle your problems calmly and thoughtfully. If you do take medication, perhaps you should ask your doctor if you could try something else?
As for your situation, @Loz_3647, don't try to solve everything at once. Sometimes we just have to take time out to let the dust settle.
Sending you best wishes for better times ahead.