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Something’s not right

My Mother

My Mother

‘octogenarians are sometimes broken’

in the pain of her brokenness

she subjectivity enjoys sharing

these stories of there life long friends

suffering on this his dying day

she does not ask him how he is, her son.

listening on the telephone this day before his birthday

instead she does her monologue with wild abandoned inflections of his death, there lifelong friend, at 81 years of age

she tells the son he’s always been a heavy drinker and didn’t look after himself

her sharp tongue of judging words, spew onwards, as the son in his silence keeps making there dinner.

on she goes, not drawing breath, until she realised he was not engaged in her story telling

the mother says ‘what’s all that noise in the background’.


the son replied ‘your on speaker, I’m cooking dinner’

with that response her spell is broken.

‘I’ll put your father on he wants to wish you a happy birthday for tomorrow’

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Re: My Mother

Happy Birthday for tomorrow @JPJohno

Sorry about not feeling cared for by your mother. Happened to me a lot too.

Hope the forums are worthwhile for you.

There are many people different ages, stories and personalities....

Seems like you are

Taking Care of you

but the old ... man is not an island ... has so much truth.

In response to: My Mother

Re: My Mother

Happy birthday for tomorrow, @JPJohno ...

Sorry about your mum factor. She sounds lonesome...

In response to: Re: My Mother

Re: My Mother

Yes, alas she is broken

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Re: My Mother

@JPJohno

It is difficult to communicate with them, I only heard about generational trauma recently, I have suffered for many years. But now my octogenarian mum no longer remembers who I am, I decided many years ago to not spend much time with my parents and never to speak of anything deep or meaningful. She had a few years where she forgot to be miserable, but now she only remembers her childhood which was awful.

Happy Birthday, I hope you have a really great day.

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Re: My Mother

Thank you.

I try to understand her lived journey.
My mother lived through the Great Depression, an only child oh trauma. Her Father killed himself, just b4 for wedding,

Her lived trauma is also mine.

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Re: My Mother

thank you

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Re: My Mother

Thank you.
It’s very sad for her.

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Re: My Mother

Yes. Thank you
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