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Struggling to function in society

Struggling to function in society

Hi,

I’m 26 and never had a job before. I went to uni, couldn’t find work so got a masters, the pandemic hit and couldn’t find work. I’ve done all the necessary extra schooling to get work but no one wanted someone without experience. I don’t know if it’s because I looked for work at the wrong time or chose schooling over work in high school but I don’t know why. It’s not like I’m doing nothing either. I’m working on being a writer, it’s what I’ve done since I was fifteen. My problem is family, they think the writing isn’t worth doing because I’m not getting money. The comments just keep bringing me down and it’s been eating at me since 2019. I just want to find a way to focus on my goals without feeling so rundown whenever there comments hit me.

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Hi @Redfox04 ,

I'm sorry to hear you feel somewhat misunderstood in this. As much as you have tried to get a job including gaining the qualifications you needed, it sounds so tough that people don't see it the way you do.

I hear that their comments can really pull you down. I also hear that your parents are probably concerned about finances in terms of the rising cost of living.

However, it's so important you chase your dreams. Who is stopping you from having a job as well as pursuing writing? Would you consider doing both?

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  • What if I told you
  • That you could be a gardener?

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And get paid

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How?

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Hi @Redfox04 @Keedla ,

Just passing through and wanted to say hi.

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