Hey @Loz_3647 . Homeostasis. That's the thing I learned about that can help with spiraling.
Thing about having a brain is the dopamine thresholds get all mucked about. Which is less homeo and less stasis.
So one way or another, we get a lot out of resetting the system. It's what so much of self-care is trying to achieve. Doesn't really matter how you get there. Just need a static baseline.
Nothing is good and nothing is bad. We attribute value. And, deciding what's good and bad all the time is haaaaaaaard work (and frankly not always necessary).
That was my take on homeostasis. It's a weird take. But, that makes sense, for I am a weirdo.