Hi patticake
It is often a scary thing when someone you love is diagnosed with a mental illness, you then enter an alien world with language you may not understand and everyone loses some control.
I work for Arafmi, an organisation throughout Australia working with carers who look after someone with a mental health illness. In WA we provide counselling with qualified counsellors - face to face or telephone. We are located in Perth, Whitfords, Midland, Rockingham, Mandurah, Fremantle, Broome, Canarvon & Port Hedland. In the city areas we run support groups, workshops and other supports. We also have Peer Workers & Advocates, a Youth Services Section which provide support for children aged 8 years up, all of which we use to suit an individuals requirements.
I would encourage you to ring and talk with one of our counsellors to assist you in providing you with support. Very often carers forget to look after themselves and you are so important in the life of the person you are caring for.
Please look at our website or call the office in your state - here in Perth it is 9427 7100 and we would be pleased to see what support we can offer you.
Remember you are not alone.
Arafmi