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Heartbreak

hopefulmonsterCasual Contributor23 Sept 2016, 10:56 pm AEST

Heartbreak

Okay I have a family history of these illnesses and am I person who suffers from social anxiety and a delusion disorder and a year and half ago I dated a guy who was if I'm being honest the kindest person in the world and then we fell apart and since then lies and drama have been spreading and lately he's dated my best friend and even though she broke up with him because she knew it wasn't right to me and I as person overthink at the best of times I am having trouble seeing which is real and not real any advice? Sorry for the long post thnx

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In response to: Heartbreak

KurraSenior Contributor23 Sept 2016, 11:13 pm AEST

Re: Heartbreak

Hi @hopefulmonster

I'm sorry to hear about the relationship issues you've been dealing with. Was there anything in particular that caused your relationship with this kind bloke to fall apart? You have a wonderful and truly honourable friend. The fact she chose to stand by you is a person to treasure.
Are you hoping you and your male friend could get back together again?
Thinking of you 💕 Take care and keep writing to us. It's a great forum full of wonderful people.

In response to: Heartbreak

hopefulmonsterCasual Contributor26 Sept 2016, 11:09 pm AEST

Re: Heartbreak

Thank you so much for your support I know I'm glad I have this friend she knows a lot about my problems and helps me best she can she wants to be therapist herself by the way and we ended things because he wasn't ready for a relationship. Again thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

In response to: Heartbreak

AyeJayCasual Contributor26 Sept 2016, 11:20 pm AEST

Re: Heartbreak

@hopefulmonster I honestly feel as though your friend's actions were very questionable.. I obviously don't know the entire situation but she obviously knew you had dated him and the reason that you ended things was because he wasn't ready for a relationship. But I mean, you don't just accidentally start dating your best friend's ex boyfriend - there would have been a lead up of some kind. Did she not think that it would upset you? And if she did, then she would have shut it down before it even had a chance to happen.

I'm glad she has since ended that relationship though and I hope she was sincerely apologetic because you probably wouldn't do the same to her. I really hope that she doesn't do things as dodgy as that on a regular basis? Is it just a one off thing?

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