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Why

PainContributor

Why

How can I let someone impact on me so greatly,here I was stupid me thinking I was moving in the right direction even if it's been slow, now I'm sitting here with my stomach in knots heart racing,thinking and re reading the text I received what a massive change in me in less than 24 hours. Just feel like crap today Yes it's my fault for letting it consume me and make me feel like this,will try and go for walk later to distract my mind and try and focus on tomorrow which is a new day

Clearly my emotions and love for him is still within me

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PeregrinefalconSenior Contributor

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Hey @Pain ❤️

It's not your fault for letting this consume you, it sounds like an incredibly challenging time and it is completely understandable - emotions and feelings for someone don't just switch off when we want them to (it would be nice if they did sometimes!)

Take extra special care of yourself. As you said, tomorrow is a new day 🙂

Kind regards

Peregrinefalcon

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PainContributor

Re: Why

You are very kind thank you

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: Why

hello @Pain

how are you going today

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PainContributor

Re: Why

Low and slow
Over thinking
Hoping you are doing well

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: Why

@Pain, sending you understanding hugs my friend

very true overthinking can take it out of us

do you finding writing things down on paper helps or to do something you like to take your mind off what you are overthinking about

i know it is hard at times

what things do you like doing

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