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HellogoodbyeCasual Contributor
I know im not safe tonight from hurting myself I'm so angry because I've been turned away from
help That people said to me if I was you I wouldn't be able to cope im
not coping this is all the effort I have to post this I've lost all energy to talk to services that don't care. Hurt myself everyday for weeks
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Hello @Hellogoodbye
Sorry to hear things are that intense for you.
Apple
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TideisTurningSenior Contributor
Hi @Hellogoodbye, it sounds like you've had some really invalidating experiences reaching out and haven't received support when you've needed it the most. I'm so sorry. I want to applaud how much it's taken for you to post so openly and honestly this evening after all of that and thank you for your courage in doing so. I know you've had some really hard experiences reaching out, but I want to strongly encourage you to reach out for help if you're worried about your immediate safety, because you deserve that support. There's Lifeline (13 11 14) or Suicide Callback Service (1300 659 467) you could try. I hope things improve for you soon. I'm going to email you to check in also. Please take good care of yourself. 🌹
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HistoryloverSenior Contributor
@Hellogoodbye Wish I had some words which would ease your pain. Just know we care about you and are thinking of you. It's just not fair that some people get so much suffering is it? Sending best wishes. Stay strong.
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rosesSenior Contributor
Hi hellogoodbye, sending love and encouragement to you. Sorry to hear that you were turned away from help today.You are a very special person, a person of courage and value.
Will keep you in my thoughts, roses 🌹
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wellwellwellnezSenior Contributor
If you haven't already. Blue Knot might be worth a try. I just posted about 'em. It does take a village and blue knot is pretty good villagers.
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